Sweet Reflections
Sitting on this island on the extreme eastern edge of the Mediterranean, I am swept away to another place and time. From Cyprus I float back to a magical island in the Caribbean and a marvelous moment in our journey. I am carried there by the essence of the succulent frangipani bush that I lounge beside. It is in full bloom and its’ fragrance is so sweet and enchanting. It is a pure natural bouquet, one you will never experience in some stinky duty free store!!
Like magic, every time this distinctive aroma passes over my olfactory, I am immediately transported to that magical place where I encountered it for the first time. I find myself for just a moment on Spring Hill on Bequia Island, floating on a tropical breeze, savoring the sun’s warm embrace.
Music also carries me on a trip down memory lane. Even though that lane is getting longer and more grown over, the connection is still very strong. Just a few notes from Chubby Checker for example, and I envision my teenage sisters dancing in their poodle skirts. A couple bars of a musky Grateful Dead tune and I have the faces of friends from magical days past. Slide some Joni Mitchell onto the turntable and I will drift off to a distant place and time. (Fear not, in 40 minutes or so I am back in real time).
When a friend or loved one who has passed, enters my consciousness, it is always their special laughter that harkens me back. What a joyful way to remember them and to spend a moment with them nearby. If you are like me, you can recall your mother’s loving voice, it’s melody warming your soul.
However sound and smell are not the only tickets to the past for me. The other day, as I plunged into a bowl of pistachio artisan ice cream, I was immediately transported from here in Switzerland back to Sicily and the joyful time we spent there. Pistachio anything pretty much conjures up Sicily for me; and it’s worth the ticket. And a rich, organic coffee, and it’s off to Guatemala, or is it Costa Rica now? There have been so many sumptuous coffee moments. Mmmmm.
Palermo, Sicily where the pistachio cannoli are epic.
Now I know for a fact that memory can be fickle, and I accept that at times, my recollections maybe richer than the actual experience. That is one reason why we prefer to not return to places we have visited. I would rather live with the fond memory, however embellished it maybe, than spoil it with mere facts.
It can be fascinating when I hear Johanne convey an experience that we have shared; the different perspective that we have on the same event can be profound. Sometimes it is like we took a different bus, or got off at a different station!! Most often our recollections diverge over the weather, hopefully the truth resides somewhere in the middle. But so what, it’s all good.
Subtle inaccuracies can be easily overlooked provided that your reflections bring you joy and put a smile on your heart.
So for me its; frangipani, pistachio ice cream, the Grateful Dead and the laughter of a dear friend.
I truly hope you have sweet reflections that guide you on wonderful little excursions.
Footnote:
Some people, even friends, like to suggest that enjoying ice cream is not very healthy.
Yet it makes my inner child very happy and so I ask these folks
” what is closer to well being than happy inner child ?”
Doug










